Declutter the House & the Shame with Susan Stewart

Organization is a process, not a destination. Jesus meets us in the mess, whether it’s body image issues, disordered eating, or even clutter in the home.

We, especially as women, tend to tie so much of our worth as a woman, wife, and mother to how our home looks. But what if we took a look at the situation through a slightly different lens? One with gentleness, love, and kindness at the heart of it? Because that’s how Jesus is approaching it.

There are quite a few similarities between body image, eating disorders, and a cluttered home. But the truth is that your body is a good body. It’s honorable and worthy of respect. And so is your home. 

In this episode with professional organizer, Susan Stewart, we discuss what to do if you’re not ready to let go of something, how clutter impacts someone emotionally, and the repeated patterns Susan sees with clients.

In this episode, we cover:

  • The messaging around mess and clutter we’ve probably absorbed

  • The truth about organizing and gender roles in the home

  • Why organizing is a learned skill

  • What clutter has to do with disordered eating and body image issues

  • The mental burden women carry and the importance of normalizing asking for help

  • How clutter impacts someone emotionally and spiritually

  • Repeated patterns and stories that Susan sees with clutter

  • Steps to take if you’re not ready to let go of something

  • Why it may not be the best fit to organize your home how you see someone else’s online

  • Options for what you can do now to help you and your home feel better

Organization is a process, not a destination. Give yourself grace and invite Jesus into the mess. He meets us in the mess, whether it’s body image issues, disordered eating, or even clutter in the home.

“A cluttered environment can be our response to our cluttered brain, but our cluttered brain can also be a response to our cluttered environment.” -Susan Stewart

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More About Susan Stewart

Susan Stewart is the founder of Perfectly Placed and one of St. Louis’s most experienced professional organizers. She specializes in creating beautiful, functional, and sustainable systems to help busy families simplify their lives. Susan is passionate about teaching clients how to maintain organized spaces. She lives in St. Louis with her husband, Travis, a regular contributor to FINDINGbalance. Susan is mom to 2 grown children, a son-in-law, a delightful grandson, and her spoiled dog Sadie. 

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The content in this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to diagnose, treat, or prescribe a particular course of action. If you have, or suspect you may have, an eating disorder, please consult your healthcare provider. If you desire to receive faith-based care, visit ChristianTreatmentFinder.com to browse professionals with a Kingdom campaign against eating disorders. 

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